Upcoming Workshops
A Weekly Marriage Check-In That Actually Helps
Most marriages don’t break down because of one big moment.They erode slowly—through missed conversations, unspoken needs, and small resentments that never quite get addressed. One simple weekly habit can help interrupt that drift: a marriage check-in. Not a problem-solving meeting.Not a rehashing of old arguments.A short, intentional pause to stay connected, aligned, and accountable. Why…Read more
Peace in the Home: The Attachment Science Behind Lasting Love
As a marriage and family therapist, I often return to a deeply rooted Jewish value: Shalom Bayit (שלום בית) — peace in the home. But Shalom Bayit is often misunderstood. It does not mean: In its truest sense, Shalom Bayit is about cultivating a home that is emotionally safe, relationally secure, and spiritually grounded —…Read more
Recent Journal Entries
Snapchat, TikTok, and the Myth of “Private”: A Safety Lens for Teens and Parents
Snapchat, TikTok, and the Myth of “Private”: A Safety Lens for Teens and Parents If you’re parenting a teen right now, you’ve probably asked some version of this question: “Is Snapchat or TikTok actually dangerous?” It’s a reasonable question. These platforms move fast, reward attention, and operate in ways most adults didn’t grow up navigating….Read more
Growing Yourself Up
Adulting isn’t just about responsibilities like paying bills or holding down a job—it’s about emotional maturity. Terrance Real highlights the importance of “growing yourself up,” which means transitioning from emotional reactivity to emotional responsibility. While we may carry wounds or patterns from our past, Real emphasizes that as adults, we have the power and duty…Read more
Breaking the Chains: Addressing Toxic Masculinity, Generational Trauma, and Men’s Mental Health
In recent years, conversations about toxic masculinity, generational trauma, and men’s mental health have gained traction, shedding light on issues that have long been in the shadows. As a psychotherapist, I’ve seen firsthand the profound impact these factors have on men’s emotional well-being. This blog post aims to explore these themes and offer insights into…Read more
Building Stronger Relationships: The Power of John Gottman’s 5-to-1 Ratio
Conflict is an inevitable part of every marriage, but understanding how couples navigate it can be the key to a lasting and fulfilling relationship. Dr. John Gottman’s groundbreaking research, particularly the 5-to-1 ratio, offers valuable insights into what distinguishes happy couples from those facing turmoil. The 5-to-1 Ratio Explained: Dr. Gottman and Robert Levenson’s longitudinal…Read more
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